Wednesday, March 19, 2025

"Seminar Report : Reforms in Criminal Laws"


One-Day Workshop on : Reforms in Criminal Laws

(Under the lead college scheme of Shivaji University, Kolhapur)

Date: 18th March 2025

Venue: Shahaji Law College, Kolhapur

Time: 10:45 AM – 2:30 PM


Introduction

The workshop on Criminal Law Reforms was conducted on 18th March 2025 to discuss the major changes introduced in Bharatiya Nyaya Sanhita (BNS), Bharatiya Nagarik Suraksha Sanhita (BNSS), and Bharatiya Sakshya Adhiniyam (BSA). The event started with an introduction by Dr.Atul Jadhav (Co-Ordinator, Lead College) and was anchored by Kalyani Pawar (Assistant Professor). Several distinguished dignitaries and legal experts participated in the workshop.


Dignitaries on Stage

Dr. Vishwanath Magdum (Secretory, Counsil Of Education)

Dr. Savita Rasam (Professor, Shahaji Law College)  

Dr. M. C. Sheikh (Professor, Shahaji Law College) 

Dr. Suhas Patki (Professor, Shahaji Law College) 

Dr. Atul Jadhav (Professor, Shahaji Law College) 

Dr. Asmita Patil (Professor, Shahaji Law College) 


Key Discussions and Insights


Session I: Changing Legal Framework and Scientific Approach

Speaker: Dr. Vishwanath Magdum

Dr. Magdum emphasized the importance of adapting to modern legal needs. His key points were: Science and law must go hand in hand; thus, new laws like BNS, BNSS, and BSA were introduced. Forensic medicine is crucial in investigations. Post-mortem recordings are now mandatory under the new laws. FIRs can now be registered through email, making justice more accessible. Bias in police departments due to political and religious influence remains a concern. Digital technology and social media play a crucial role in modern crime investigations. The legal system should ensure that innocent people are not wrongfully punished.


Session II: Practical Implementation of Criminal Law Reforms

Speaker: Prof. Savita Rasam

Prof. Rasam focused on how institutions should adopt and implement the new criminal laws. She discussed: The role of lead college activities in spreading awareness about BNS, BNSS, and BSA. The need to focus on practical and procedural aspects of the new laws rather than just theoretical knowledge.


The workshop comprised multiple technical sessions, each led by distinguished speakers specializing in various domains of criminal law.


Technical Session I

Speaker: Dr. Anand Deshmukh

Topics Covered:

Dr. Anand Deshmukh, a Head of the Law Dept. at Babasaheb Ambedkar Marathwada University, Chh.Sambhajinagar; specializing in corporate law, criminal law, and criminology, introduced the session with an overview of the codification of laws in India.

1. Historical Development of Criminal Law in India

Earlier, punishments were based on the Varna system and later evolved into religion-based penalties during the Mughal period. In 1857, Lord Macaulay drafted the Indian Penal Code (IPC) under British rule, introducing a Uniform Criminal Justice System ensuring equal punishment for the same crime without discrimination.

2. Colonial Laws and Their Relevance 

The laws passed by the Britishers were colonial in nature, raising concerns about unconstitutionality and voidability in independent India.

Reforms in Penal Punishments:

31 new offenses were added.

19 offenses were deleted to modernize the legal framework.

3. Recent Developments

Introduction of community services as a penalty. Discussion on organized crime under Maharashtra Control of Organised Crime Act (MCOCA). Amendments in criminal conspiracy laws and penalties for terrorist activities & abetment.


Technical Session II

Speaker: Dr.Deepak Kshirsagar (Maniyar Law College, Jalgaon)

Topics Covered:

1. Gender-Based Offenses and Reforms 

Gender-based offenses have seen changes, with voyeurism being the only exception. The legal system considers age factors (16-18 years) in determining the nature of offenses. Addressing the bias in rape laws, questioning why only males are held liable for rape & abetment while females are not.

2. Marital Rape & Gender-Neutral Laws

Marital rape is punishable only in specific conditions. The introduction of gender-neutral punishments aims to prevent misuse of laws.

3. Other Key Changes

Unnatural intercourse is penalized if the sole purpose of intercourse is not childbirth. Sedition law reform: The term “sedition” is now replaced with “endanger” under Section 152 BNS. Introduction of white-collar crime provisions and new offenses related to the kidnapping of children under lawful guardianship.


Technical Session III

Speaker: Adv. Sandip Chate 

(B.Sc, LL.B, LL.B, ADR – Civil & Criminal Procedure)

Topics Covered:

1. Reforms in Criminal Procedure Code

Introduction of Bhartiya Nagarik Suraksha Sanhita (BNSS). 

Comparative analysis between CrPC & BNSS. 

Removal of archaic & insensitive terms from the legal framework.

Enhancement of progressive safeguards to improve clarity and efficiency in legal procedures.

2. Major Amendments & Changes

Cosmetic changes in the Bharatiya Sakshya Adhiniyam (BSA) 2023. Reference to legal judgments such as Hon'ble Justice P.N. Bhagwati (1978) and Justice Nariman, Ravindra, Ramsubramanian (2020). IEA (Indian Evidence Act) amendments from 1872 to 2019, with 26 revisions.

3. Modernization of Legal System

Synchronizing legal provisions with current socio-legal issues. Removal of outdated laws from the British colonial era. Comparative differentiation of BSA & IEA to highlight modern legal interpretations. Inclusion of electronic records submission to align with digital advancements.


Conclusion & Valedictory Session

The workshop successfully provided a deep understanding of legal transformations and contemporary criminal law reforms. It emphasized the need for a fair trial system, gender-neutral laws, and the removal of colonial-era ambiguities. The valedictory session included a certificate distribution by Hon'ble Dr.Parvin Patil (Principal, Shahaji Law College) and a vote of thanks by Dr. Patki Sir. The event proved to be an enlightening experience for students and researchers, bridging theoretical knowledge with practical legal advancements.


Note : All the slides of Power Point Presentation by speakers are compiled in the link below.

Link

Tuesday, January 30, 2024

The Vision for a Peaceful Future


                                         I experienced a sense of overwhelm when my reflections were chosen for presentation at the Sevagram Ashram Pratishthan. Additionally, I received commendation from both the director and secretary of Sevagram Ashram ; My presentation was chaired by Mr. Sunil Ganatra (Institute of Science, Nagpur) in presence of Chief guest Mr. Luise Campana (President, Gandhi International, France), Dr. John Chelladurai (Dean Interdisciplinary Studies, MGM University, Aurangabad), Mr. Siby K. Joseph (Director, IFPNP, Sevagram Ashram Pratishthan), and all the esteemed delegates who attended. Further deepening my gratitude and sense of accomplishment. 

[ NOTE : Resharing my reflections here which is already published on the website : https://nonvpi.blogspot.com ]


 Title of the Theme 

 “The Vision for a Peaceful Future” 



 Symbolizing our aspirations for a harmonious future. 

 In the current era, it is imperative to nurture children and 

instil in them a lifelong commitment to the values of peace. 



 By, 

 Miss. Shamal Ramshe 

 Student, International Fellowship Program on Nonviolence & Peace. 

 January, 2024



                                 Dear Esteemed Colleagues, Scholars, and Fellow Students of Gandhian Philosophy,

Introduction: 

                                 Today, I wish to engage in a thoughtful exploration of the theme that resonates deeply with our shared values - "The Vision for a Peaceful Future." As we embark on this collective journey of understanding, let us delve into the essence of what constitutes a peaceful future and why it holds unparalleled significance in the context of Gandhian philosophy. I am here to discuss the concepts of "vision" and the ideal vision of the future in this colloquium. My aim is to convey the importance of this subject by presenting a specific key aspects for your consideration. 


Defining 'Vision': 

                                 At the heart of our discussion lies the term 'vision.' According to Oxford Languages, 'vision' refers to the ability to think about or plan the future with imagination or wisdom. It is akin to an eyesight that can pre-plan what ought to unfold. The etymology of the word 'vision' traces back to the Latin term 'vis,' meaning 'see,' and has evolved to represent far-sightedness. 

                                In the context of "The Vision for a Peaceful Future," the emphasis is on aligning our thinking, imaginative capacities, and forward-looking perspectives to plan a future where generations can thrive in peace. This requires thoughtful considerations about the future of peace and the well-being of our successors. 


Who is & what is Future: 

                                 The concept of 'Future' is intricately intertwined with the birth of a child, who embodies the promise of tomorrow. Children serve as the essence of our collective future, and our endeavours are dedicated to nurturing and shaping this future. It is essential to recognize that the seeds of peace in society are sown from the very inception, even before birth. The conduct of mothers and family members significantly influences the mental and behavioural development of the child, as they absorb the elements from their immediate environment. Therefore, today's discussion revolves around the notion of a peaceful future, inherently linked to the cultivation of peaceful children.


The Urgency for a Peaceful Future: 

                                  As we find ourselves at the intersection of a new year, it becomes imperative to reflect on the global scenarios marked by conflict, suffering, and a stark need for peace. The lives lost, especially those of innocent children, serve as poignant reminders of the urgency for peace. Statistics on violence, crimes, and the misuse of resources for military purposes underscore the pressing need for concerted efforts towards establishing peace. 


                                                                                                                            ref.1*


According to UNICEF:  

• Some 15 million adolescent girls aged 15–19 have experienced forced sex in their lifetime. 

• About 10% of the world's children are not legally protected from corporal punishment. 

• Over 1 in 3 students aged 13–15 experience bullying worldwide.

• Approximately 1 in 4 children under the age of 5 – some 176 million – live with a mother who is a victim of intimate partner violence. 

• Roughly 3 in 4 children between the ages of 2 and 4 – around 300 million – are regularly subjected to violent discipline by their caregivers. (ref.2)*


More than 1700 children are killed during Russia - Ukraine War. More than ten thousand children lost their lives in Gaza. 

Who are killing them? 

The humans. Who were once a child!! 


Interviews and dialogues observations: 



                                   In pursuit of insights into this matter, I engaged with Mr. Milind Yadav, the visionary founder of the 'Chiller Party Movement' based in Kolhapur, Maharashtra. Mr. Yadav has keenly observed the adverse effects of screen content on children, particularly through mobile phones. In response to this concern, he devised a strategic plan to channel the influence of screens in a positive direction. His movement involves showcasing carefully selected child-oriented movies, offered to the audience free of cost, with nominal fees only to cover the rental expenses of the venue. To date, this initiative has successfully exposed thousands of children to enriching cinematic experiences, accompanied by workshops aimed at imparting a thoughtful approach to movie consumption.

                                   An additional aspect worth highlighting emerged during an interview with film critic Mr. Anmol Kothadia, shedding light on the concept of text and sub-text within screen content. Frequently, creators intend to convey a sub-textual message to the audience, yet only the surface-level text reaches them. This discrepancy has broader societal implications, especially concerning children. 


                                    In the above context Dr.Arun Shinde a professor and social scientist ; said that Games featuring violence, where players engage in the act of killing, and historical destruction-themed games often carry a sub-text of aggression. Regrettably, the primary focus, or text, may be on playing and learning, but the underlying sub-text perpetuates violence. Moreover, instances exist where movies are created to oppose certain actions, yet the unintended consequence is the glorification of those very actions, significantly impacting children's behaviour.


                                    In a disconcerting revelation, an interview with a primary school teacher Deepa Warpe having 19 years of experience with primary school, unveiled alarming insights. Children as young as six years old are well-versed in sexual signs and possess knowledge of derogatory language. This revelation underscores the urgency of addressing the manner in which our future generations are being shaped and educated.

                                    As an illustration, consider my two-and-a-half-year-old niece, who exhibits a preference for playing with toy guns. While her parents envision a future where she may contribute to the nation's defence, there exists a poignant uncertainty. The innocent play with toy guns may unknowingly shape her perception of armed forces or even influence a more sinister path. This scenario encapsulates the complex reality of how today's children, our future, are being nurtured.

                                   “In the past, when technology was not readily available to children, these topics were not as regularly occurring in children's lives. Now, the most common children's hobbies are playing video games, watching television and movies, listening to music, and surfing the net, all of which often contain themes of violence.” - Ashley Ward (ref.3)*

                                     So, the pervasive influence of screen content on children demands immediate attention. Initiatives like the 'Chiller Party Movement' highlight the potential for positive change, emphasizing the need for deliberate interventions that channel screen exposure in ways that contribute to the holistic development of our future generations. The urgency of this matter cannot be overstated, as it directly impacts the well-being and behavioural patterns of children in our rapidly evolving world.


Guidance from Gandhian Principles:

                                     How do we go about establishing peace? Gandhi's own words provide valuable insights. A robust social system, grounded in reason, justice, inclusive religious ideas, equal status for women, and access to opportunities for all, forms the foundation for peace. These principles, while profoundly simple, guide us towards a path of sustainable and meaningful peace. 

                                     Gandhi's philosophy is not merely a theoretical construct; it is a practical guide for our actions. As students of IFPNP, we were urged in the initial sessions to understand Gandhi before gradually adapting his principles into our lives. Now, the time has come to take this understanding and adapt Gandhian principles actively, promoting and establishing peace in our society.


The Imperative of Learning from the Past:

                                    According to me, in the pursuit of peace, it is essential to recognize the value of learning from the past. While studying history, we often find ourselves at risk of getting stuck in the past rather than deriving meaningful lessons for the present and future. The past serves as a guidepost, offering insights into what worked and what didn't. It should not shackle us but empower us to implement and utilize its lessons for a more beautiful future. 


 Actionable Steps: 

                                    To actualize our vision for a peaceful future, we must meticulously plan our vision board, focusing on the crucial role of children. Designing activities that instil peace values for children from kindergarten to 1st standard, evolving to more challenging programs for older age groups, is imperative. Recognizing that present children are the architects of our future, our efforts for a peaceful future must prioritize investing in them.

                                     Additionally, policies impacting individuals must be designed with an emphasis on social justice and rationality. We must redirect resources currently flowing our billions of dollars into military tools towards providing essential needs like food, clothing, and shelter, thus contributing to the overall well-being of society. As we see many children below 18 years of age are dealing with livelihood problems, so they are turning towards bad habits and irrational and unethical businesses. Thus, the call for peace is not just an aspiration; it is an urgent and collective responsibility.

                                     In contemporary times, a concerning trend has emerged where children are increasingly exhibiting violent behaviours. Through extensive research and numerous interviews, it has become evident that children are spending a significant amount of their time in front of screens, making these devices an integral part of their lives. The impact of screen content on today's children cannot be overlooked, prompting an exploration into potential interventions for a more positive influence.

                                       To conclude, our vision board for a peaceful future must boldly declare that children are the most crucial element. To reach them effectively, we must plan activities focusing on peace values for children from kindergarten to 1st standard. As they grow, the nature of activities and programs should evolve, presenting challenges for age groups 7 to 10 and 11 to 18. 

                                      Ashley Ward “I believe that as an educator of children I have a role in teaching children about peaceful behaviour. I need to be a positive role model for children by showing them peaceful ways of thinking and behaving. In Canada the topic of peace is to be covered in each elementary school grade through our social studies curriculum. As teachers we strive to include peace education in our daily classroom activities and we also do specific lesson plans covering the topic of peace education, such as studying peaceful movements or specific individuals. Some of the ways in which peaceful behaviour and understanding is developed through daily classroom activities” (ref.4)* 

                                     Hence, I underline that ; we have the opportunity to introduce educational and enjoyable games that replace guns and jets with flowers and plants. By innovating the educational approach, we can create a space where children effortlessly internalize the principles of peace and non-violence.


Gandhi's Light in the Stormy Ocean:

                                     In the today’s atmosphere where we the advocates of non-violence & peace are standing in the middle of stormy ocean; Gandhi's philosophy is often likened to a lighthouse guiding us through this stormy ocean of our times. As students of IFPNP, we are not just recipients of knowledge; we are bearers of a legacy that beckons us to actively contribute to the establishment of peace in our societies. Our understanding of Gandhian principles must translate into practical actions. 

                                     In the 21st century, we stand at a critical juncture where we must contemplate how to integrate Gandhian principles into our lives to foster peace, to enrich children, our future. Our vision board for a peaceful future should prioritize children considering the overarching principles of social justice, gender equality, and equal opportunities for all.


Conclusion:

                                     The present children are our future, and to work for a peaceful future, we must work on molding their minds towards values of peace. To address social justice and reason, we must design policies that positively impact individuals. Gandhi's philosophy is not merely about understanding; it is a constitution that invites us to critically examine our lives and the surrounding world. 

                                     In conclusion, I would like to leave you with my favourite quote by Gandhi, which encapsulates the essence of his teachings: 

                                     "In a gentle way, you can shake the world." 

This powerful statement has been a guiding principle in my life, reminding me of the transformative impact that even the smallest acts of kindness and compassion can have on our world. 

                                    Thank you for your attention and consideration. I again remind you, as we collectively strive towards; our peaceful future i.e. today’s children, let us bear in mind the profound impact we can have on the world by actively embodying and promoting Gandhian principles for every child. 

Thank You all.



References:  

1) https://www.thequint.com/neon/social-buzz/childrens-day-children-in-gaza-israel palestine-conflict-death-roll-rising-a (ref.1)* 

 2) https://www.unicef.org/protection/violence-against-children (ref.2)* 

 3) https://www.mkgandhi.org/articles/elementary_schl.htm (ref.3 & ref 4)* 

 4) Mr.Milind Yadav (VRS Teacher, Founder Chiller Party Movement) 

 5) Dr.Anmol Kothadia (BAMS Doctor, Film Critic) 

 6) Dr.Arun Shinde (College Professor, Author, Researcher) 

 7) Mrs.Deepa Warpe (Primary School Teacher, 20 years of experience with kids; age group 5 to 14)

Monday, January 8, 2024

सत्यशोधक


आज कपिल सरांचा ग्रुपवर मेसेज पाहिला, "शाहू टॉकीज ला आजचा शो बघायला कोण येतंय का?" रविवारच्या धावपळीत असणारी मी , अचानक जागी झाले... ते सरळ मग तिकीट online बुक केल्यावर शांत झालं डोकं. पण ; काय असेल , कसं असेल.. या अशा उत्साहात मन उतू जात होतं हेही तितकंच खरंय. 


सिनेमा चालू झाला..... 'Rights of Man' ज्योतिबांनी वाचायला घेतल्यापासून भरून आलेलं मन सांभाळता येतंच नव्हतं. अंगावर शहारे.. गळ्यात आवंढा .. डोळ्यांत पाणी आणि मनात निस्सीम अभिमान.. असं सारं रूप. 


बाहेर आल्यावर यावर कसं react व्हावं हेच कळत नव्हतं.... आजचे आम्ही जे आपापल्या आयुष्याच्या मागे लागलेले आहोत ते पाहिले की लाज वाटते स्वत:ची .... आजचे आम्ही प्रेम, जबाबदारी , इ मोठाल्या गप्पा मारतो आणि 'साऊ-ज्योति चे कपल गोल्स' आमच्या सनकन कानाखाली वाजवून जातात. कष्टाच्या घामाच्या वासाला जर आज आपण unhygeinic म्हणत असू तर; कुठेतरी गफलत होतेय, कष्टाला न्याय मिळवून देणारे आपण कसे पुढे जाणार हे निर्माणकारालाच माहीत!!

  

आपण आपल्या डोळ्यांसमोर काहीतरी चुकीचं होताना ते फक्त पाहत कसं बसायचं ? बा ज्योतिबा तुला हे कसं जमायचं ? साऊला शिकवताना तुझ्या चेहऱ्यावरचा आनंद पाहून डोळे भरून गेले. बा, लहुजी वस्तादांनी तुला दिलेली साथ पाहून उर भरून आला. जेव्हा माणसांना विटाळ समजणारी लोकं आजूबाजूला असतात तेव्हा , असे शंभर लहुजी जोडीला असलेच पाहिजेत असं मनोमनी वाटलं. 


बा , तुझं साऊवरचं प्रेम आणि तुमच्या दोघांचं समाजावरचं प्रेम पाहून , आताच्या आमच्या पिढीच्या प्रेमाची कीव आली रे !  बा ज्योतिबा तुला धर्म इतका सहज सोपा आणि  निर्भीड मांडताना पाहिलं की, अंगावर काटे येतात. नातूंच्या गरोदर काशीला वाचवायला तू पाण्यात उडी मारलीस आणि रात्री तिला घरी घेऊन गेलास , दारावर ठोठावता साऊ दार उघडते आणि ; 'ही आत्महत्या करायला निघाली होती' म्हटल्यावर साऊ जेव्हा तिला जवळ घेते तेव्हा आपोआपच डोळ्यांतून पानी येतं. बा , म्हारा-मांगांच्या पोरांना , शूद्र अति शूद्रांना तू आपलंसं केलेलं पाहिलं की जगाला मिठीत घेणारा तू दिसतोस. एका लहान मुलीचं देवाशी लग्न लावताना पाहिल्यावर , ते थांबावं, चुकीचं जे काही समोर घडतंय ते रोखावं म्हणून तू केलेली धडपड पाहिली की वाटतं .... आम्ही तुझे वारस , तुझ्या विचारांचे वारस आज कुठेतरी कमी पडतोय बा ! तुझं शेतकऱ्यांसाठी झटणं.... धरणावर होणारा काळा बाजार बेधडकपणे थांबवणं.... आणि बा, बालविधवांची बाळं जेव्हा तू स्वीकारतोस तेव्हा तुझ्यावरचं प्रेम भरभरून वाहू लागतं .... तुला समाजासाठी , गोर-गरिबांसाठी आटापिटा करताना पाहिलं की वाटतं बा तू परत यावास.... थोडा काळ आमच्यात राहावंस.. आम्हाला शिकवावंस... व्यवस्थेला वठणीवर आणायला !! 


बा, आम्ही प्रयत्न करतोय. तुझे विचार आज चिरंतन चळवळ म्हणून चालतायंत .... ही चळवळ पुढे आणखी दृढ होईल ; अशी तुला आशा देते आणि थांबते. love you ज्योति - साऊ !!


तू सांगितलेला सत्यशोधक स्वतःमध्ये शोधणारी तुझी लेक,

शामलदीपा 

Friday, December 8, 2023

'ओह माय गोडसे'


                              मी अकरावीत असेन तेव्हा एक प्रयोग खूप बंदोबस्तात झाला , तेव्हा आलेल्या वर्तमानपत्रातील बातमीमुळे नाटक डोक्यात घर करून होतं ; आत्ता योग आला होता, पाहण्याचा !

                              18 नोव्हेंबरला बुक माय शो चाळताना सहजच लक्ष गेलं केशवराव भोसले नाट्यगृहात येऊ घातलेल्या पुढील प्रयोगांवर. नजर खेळून राहिली ती नथुराम गोडसे च्या प्रयोगावर. त्यापूर्वी मी माझ्या मित्र परिवारात या नाटकाबद्दल विचारणा केली काही ठिकाणी नथुरामी वृत्तीचा सक्त विरोध केलेला पाहायला मिळाला तर काही ठिकाणी 55 कोटी , गोपाळ गोडसे , फाळणी , इत्यादी , इत्यादी. त्यासोबतच मी या नाटकाचे पूर्वी उमटलेले पडसाद पहावे म्हणून युट्यूब वगैरे माध्यमांचा आधार घेतला. जेव्हा नाटक आलं आणि पुढचा एक सात-आठ वर्षांचा काळ ते गाजत होतं त्यादरम्यान पाहिलेल्या व्यक्तींशी संपर्क केला. मला सर्वांगाने कुठेच नाटकाचे निरीक्षण-परीक्षण ऐकायला वा वाचायला मिळाले नाही.

                                विनायक ची आठवण झाली. असे डोकं भांबावून सोडणारे प्रश्न सोडवणं त्याला भारी जमतं (याचे लहान सहान अनुभव मी स्वतः घेतले त्यामुळे). थोडक्यातच सांगते. विनायकची आणि माझी ओळख ; विवेकानंद महाविद्यालयात मी अकरावीला होते , विनायक तेव्हा पदवीच्या दुसऱ्या वर्गात होता. तेव्हा व्हाट्सअप वर एक मेसेज फिरत होता ज्यात विवेक वाहिनीशी जोडले जाण्यासंदर्भात माहिती होती. संपर्क म्हणून खाली विनायकचा नंबर होता. मी मेसेज केला आणि मी 'विवेकी गटाशी' कायमची जोडले गेले. ब्लॉग राइटिंग बद्दल मला विनायकनेच सांगितलं होतं. त्याचे ब्लॉग नंतर 'फिलिंग अस्वस्थ' या लेखसंग्रहाच्या रूपाने आपल्याला वाचायला मिळालेच. विनायकचं लिखाण , व्याख्याने , चळवळ हे सर्व आता एका स्वतंत्र उंचीवर येऊन पोहोचले होते ; दरम्यान त्याचं 'ओह माय गोडसे' हे पुस्तक मी फार ऐकून होते. म्हणून ; संबंधित नाटकाबद्दल विनायकशी मतमतांतर झाले.

                                खरंतर मी पाच-सहा वर्षांपूर्वी गोपाळ गोडसे वाचलंय , सेवाग्राम ची शिबिरं केलीयत , गांधी रिसर्च फौंडेशनला भेट दिलीय , 'नॉन वायोलेन्स अँड पीस' ची आंतरराष्ट्रीय फेलोशिपही सध्या चालू आहे , सत्याचे प्रयोग लहानपणापासून सोबतच आहे , काही गांधी अभ्यासाच्या कॉन्फरन्स केल्या आहेत , आता मी हे नाटक पाहिलंय आणि आता मी 'ओह माय गोडसेही' वाचलंय !!

                                नाटक हे मनोरंजनाचं एक साधन असतं अशी शालेय वयातील नाटकाची व्याख्या या नाटकाच्या निमित्ताने अधोरेखित झाली ; 'मनोरंजनाचं साधन'. नाटकाबद्दल स्व:मत मांडण्यासारखं त्यात काहीच नाही याची जाणीव झाली ; पण नाटक पाहिल्यानंतर मनापासून एक सांगू वाटतंय ''समोर चालू असणारा थोतांडपणा , भ्याडपणाच्या अस्तरात लपून वार करणारी वृत्ती ; अनुभवायची , पहायची , ऐकायची आणि साहायची शक्ती बापूंच्या जीवनपटाने मला एव्हाना दिलीय''.


पुस्तक :- 'ओह माय गोडसे'
प्रथम आवृत्ती :- 20 जुलै 2019
द्वितीय आवृत्ती :- 30 जानेवारी 2023
पृष्ठसंख्या :- 203
आणि
लेखक :- विनायक होगाडे

                                   मुळातच विनायककडे ओघवत्या भाषेची प्रचंड प्रतिभा आहे. पुस्तक वाचायला घेतलं की , संपलेलं समजत नाही. जे - जे काही वाचू ते - ते समोर दिसायला लागतं. एकूण 17 भागांत लिहिलेलं हे पुस्तक गांधी अभ्यासकच नव्हे तर ; नथुरामअभ्यासकांनीही वाचलं पाहिजे असं मनोमन वाटतं. नथुरामची बाजू त्याच्या जागी जशी इतिहासात आपण पाहिली तशी इथेही त्याच्या मांडणीला जागा दिली आहे आणि गांधींच्या तत्वांवर सखोल आणि सहज भाष्य करण्यात लेखक यशस्वी झाल्याचे दिसून येते.

                                   अभिराम , डॉ.केतन , स्मिता , डॉ.नेहा , निशांत , जेनिफर , गाथा आणि कबीर यांच्या भूमिकेतून नाटकाबद्दलची आणि वास्तविक गांधीहत्येची ; आणि त्यामागील सुप्त हालचालींची चिकित्सक मांडणी वाचल्यावर खरंच मनावरचा ताण आणि डोक्यातले असंख्य प्रश्न दूर व्हायला लागतात.

                                   'गांधी आपल्यातलाच आहे , तुमच्या-माझ्यासारखा' असं जेव्हा सुरुवातीच्या मनोगतात लेखक मांडतात तेव्हाच 'पुस्तक वाचण्याचे कारण' वाचकाला सापडते.

                                    धर्म - परधर्मवाद असो , मोहनदास - गांधी - सावरकर - नथुराम - गांधीवाद असो , हिंसा - अहिंसा असो , शस्त्र - निशस्त्र असो , अखंड हिंदुस्थान - फाळणी असो , बंदूक - चरखा असो किंवा , श्रीराम - रावण - राम असो ; या साऱ्या मुद्द्यांवर गरजेचं असणारं विचारविनिमयाचं काम या पुस्तकातून झालेलं आहे.

                                    अभिरामने गोळ्या झाडल्यावर ; स्मितांचा तो शब्दबद्ध अविष्कार मनाला फार लागतो , बापूंचं शेवटी असं जाणं ; सहन न होणारं आहे याची राहून राहून जाणीव होते. 

                                     इतिहास जाणून घेऊन दाखले मांडणे आणि विवेकाने समजावणे आजच्या  अभिरामांसाठी अत्यावश्यक आहे. आणि 'ओह माय गोडसे' च्या माध्यमातून विनायक तू ते काम चोखपणे करतोयस , याचा आनंद आणि अभिमान आहे. अभिरामच्या डोक्यातील द्वंद्वाला दूर करण्याच्या निशस्त्र लढाईत आणखी कैक तरुण-तरुणी तुझ्यासोबत आहेत , असतील अशी आशा देते आणि या पुस्तकाचे आता अनुवादही व्हावेत अशी ईच्छा व्यक्त करून थांबते.

                                      तर , हे पुस्तक लवकरात-लवकर घ्या , वाचा आणि वाचनानुभव लेखकांपर्यंत पोहोचवा.


                                                                                                                                    
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Saturday, February 4, 2023

"Underrated Wheels of India!"

       


             

                              Several times I've said 'no' to rikshaw pullers because it's heart-aching to see one is taking efforts, consuming his blood as a source of fuel just to travel for you! But yesterday I walked for long after a long time and it was not possible to walk more, my legs and lower body were literally shivering. & then I saw many rikshaw pullers who were urging people to have a seat and get their fare so that they can earn and fulfill their needs & I finally dared to seat and experienced the heart-aching feeling. Duringthe travel of almost 1.5km, I talked with rikshaw puller chacha :

1.Subah se sham tak yahi ?

- ji ha isi pe chalta hai, koi kam bhi nahi hai aajkal.

2. Aapke charges fixed hai yah fir alag alag ?

- alag alag rahte hai , thand me kam jyada nhi ho pata, dal roti ka ho jata hai , aur yeh electric rikshaw aane k bad hum logo ka dhanda nahi hota.

                             Then I went to make a change of notes. While a friend with me asked him a few more questions,

1. Aapki family kaha pe hai fir ?

- Delhi me mehangai bahut hai, mai akela rehta hoon gharwale gav me rahte hai.

2. Aapke din me kitne ho jate hai ?

- din bhar 200-250 kama leta hoon.

                             We gave him fare and a packet of snacks. It's not the thing I want to explain here. But,

- Can blood be a source of fuel even in 2023 ??

- Is it possible to fulfill the needs of the 4-5 family members in Rs.6000/- a month?

- What about health security? Educational security? Social security? Of the Rikshaw puller and his family?

- How can we help them to tackle electric vehicles, CNG rikshaw & people with Ola, and Uber?

(Without a doubt, I can say he is eco-friendly living. He is not consuming natural resources as much as we consume. No Petrol/Diesel, No pollution).

It is indeed hard to paddle the cycle on inclined paths! 

It is really terrible to stop the paddle and paddle the cycle again in traffic and that's too with 1 or 2 persons sitting behind!

Do you think our technologically fascinated and forwarded world and mindset will help him?

Don't you think about inclusive growth & development? And if 'Yes'; HOW? And if 'No'; WHY ??

#rikshawpullers #StoryOnWheels #growth

Saturday, December 31, 2022

"Confusion at its Best''



                               So, one of the most beautiful years of my life is at its eve. And here I am, as usual, confused with two decisions: whether to buy a course or whether to buy a book related to that course! I have always gone through the confusion and found miracles in the end. In particular, when it came to this year, I rarely made a single decision; rather, I always had two options in mind for everything. But let me tell you one thing, my habit of confusion is not at its worst but at its best! I would like to explain it further...

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Let's say there are many flowers at the flower shop, and you want to have only one of them, but you're confused! Then you first eliminate those that are not attracting your attention again and again. After some time, you found a few flowers with the same confusion and again went through the thoughts that you wanted to buy only one, then "which would be that?" Then you came up with two flowers with an extreme desire to buy, and bought one of "THE" flowers after thinking about it for a long time! 

                              When I reflect on such situations later, I always discover that my confusion led me to make the correct decision. As I said earlier, my confusion is not at its worst but at its best! Because of this nature, I am able to live life without regrets and "kaash."

                              Confusion allows me to think more about the same thing before deciding. It is the Confusion that leads to get the Positives and Negatives of the same thing you want. Confusion saves me from taking the wrong path. It allows me to find the right path without feeling rushed. Confusion aids my pursuit of near perfection.

P.S.: I adore my confusion for being with me! :-)

Monday, February 28, 2022

उल्का

 पुस्तकाचे नाव : उल्का 

प्रकार : कादंबरी

लेखक : वि.स.खांडेकर

प्रथमावृत्ती : १९३४

सद्य प्रकाशक : मेहता पब्लिशिंग हाऊस

पृष्ठसंख्या : १७०



एकूण २५ भागांत रचलेली ' उल्का' कादंबरी ; तिच्याविषयी थोडं काही ,

                 उल्का तत्वं शिकवून जाते. मन भरून येईतोवर प्रत्येक पात्र समोर येऊन बोलू लागतं तेव्हा , जाणीव होते की आपण वाचताहोत ही कलाकृती कल्पित का असेना पण भाव - बंधांच्या प्रवाहात वाहवून नेणारी होडी आहे. माणूस म्हणून जन्माला आल्यानंतर ' काहीतरी केलं तरंच कर्तृत्त्व राहतं' यापेक्षा ' तत्वानं जगला तर खरा माणूस उरतो ' यावर अधिक विश्वास बसतो.

                 उल्का , तशी साधी , सरळ , सोपी मुलगी ! हुशारी जन्मतःच तिच्यात असावी पण ; भावनांच्या घुसळणीत हुशारी टिकेल कशी हेही तितकंच खरं !

                या कादंबरीत ' उल्का ' नावाची मुलगी , तिचे शिक्षक वडील ज्यांनी पुनर्विवाह केलेला ; तिचे काही सवंगडे आणि कालांतराने आयुष्याच्या महत्वाच्या टप्प्यांवर समोर येणारे पुरुष ; वसंत , माणिकराव , बाबुराव आणि चंद्रकांत !

                चंद्रकांताची चुणूक भलतीच महान ! तो , त्याची पत्रं , त्याचा समुद्र , त्याचे भाऊ , त्याची उल्का , त्याची कल्पना , त्याचा निडरपणा आणि त्याचं देशप्रेम ; हा सारा प्रवास अस्सा डोळ्यांसमोर घडतोय असा दिसू लागतो.

                कोकणचं , समुद्राचं विसंनी केलेलं वर्णन , भाऊंच्या मतांची अर्थात तत्वांची मांडणी इथपासून ते चंद्रकांताचं अधिक प्रेम कोणावर हे अवघ्या सहा - सात ओळींच्या संवादातून सांगून क्षणात मनाला एखाद्या काट्याचा प्रेमळ ओरखडा उमटतो आणि उल्केप्रति प्रेम निर्माण करून जातो. बाकी इतकंच की , विसंची फार फार ओढ वाटू लागते.


Saturday, January 8, 2022

The Everyday Hero Formula

                                       Hellooo readers... Here I'm sharing with you something which sounds incredible , which seemed me as the most invaluable thing one should go through. And that is THE EVERYDAY HERO FORMULA by Robin Sharma. He is Canadian writer , Leadership experts and one of the best mentors.

                                        I was just scrolling my instagram and as always excited to read what he writes on his stories I wondered there and found a free e-book course , named as above i.e. THE EVERYDAY HERO FORMULA. I attended all his 4 videos and gone through emailed information they provided and have made some notes. And I just want to share my that experience and some very important and interesting thoughts of Robin Sharma. Don't forget to attend this platinum opportunity to listen Robin Sharma.

Here we go ,

This is not some 'Magic pill formula' you will have to watch all 4 videos and do some work to get the results. Because 'No Idea Works For Someone Who Does No Work'.

VIDEO 01 "The Victim To Hero Leap"
Five game changing insights to bring you to world class in your business and in your everyday life.

To be covered :
- How the most successful people on the planet think.
- A method to beat distraction as well as fear so you become the most focused and strong person you know.
- Five extraordinary tactics you can apply today to unleash more energy , upgrade your performance and realize your greatness.
- The single best daily routine of the billionaire , superstars and great geniuses.

Image 01 : 


• Everyday Hero = Someone who is building a great life while you make the world a better place.
• It's really important to do good for yourself and for those you love.
• Serving the world is important.
• Understand 'The collective de-professionalization of business'.
• Never lose the sparkle in your eye.
• Understand 'The mass mediocratization of humanity'.
• Steve Jobs Refused to Compromise. He had an obsession with product perfection.
• Wakeup every morning with the fire in the belly to go out there and just change the world while you escalate your greatness in your own unique way.

First Leap :
- Move to mindset of CAN'T to mentality of CAN.
- Psychology Of possibilities is Positive Psychology.
- Your language reflects your beliefs.
- If you recite your excuses long enough , you actually hypnotize yourself to believe they are true.
- You are built to be hero of your life.
- Just because you couldn't do it yesterday , doesn't mean you can't do it today.
- University College of London = ''It takes 66 days to wire in a new habit'.

Second Leap :
- Shift from 'busy being busy' to monomanically focused on delivering results.
- Victims are addicted to entertainment and leaders are obsessed with getting things done.
- Get away from digital distractions.

Third Leap :
- Let Go off Past.
- Past is servant from we learn and not home to live in.
- Forgive the unforgiven.
- Pain comes to purify.

Fourth Leap :
- Beneath every excuse lives a fear.
- An excuse detox.
- The beginning of transformation lives in awareness.
- Release excuse to delivering results.
- Changing your world while you change your life is a process.
- Small daily improvements when done consistently over time lead to stunning results.

Fifth Leap :
- 'Victim takes from the world and Hero gives to the world.'
- Understand 'mentality of generosity.'
- The more you give the more you receive. So be giver not a taker.
- She/He who is most helpful , wins.
- The one who is of most use to the most people is the one who , not only dominates the domain , but they live the greatest lives.
- Friend that grows with friend i.e. friend who stays with friend.

VIDEO 02 "THE THREE STEP SUCCESS FORMULA"

To be covered :
- 2 mental frameworks that will completely change the game for you once they are applied in your everyday life.
- How to recode your mindset so you win.
- The method the pros use to install habits that truly last.( It's called the 66 days minimum).
- Why moving from superficiality to granularity will separate you from the 95% humanity that is stuck at average.
- 5 ways to bulletproof your thinking , confidence and performance like a navy seal.
- Ideation without execution is delusion.
- Less talk , more do.

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- Repeatation is the mother of integration.

- When you know better , you do better.
- Your days are your life in miniature.
- With better awareness , you can make better choices or decisions , with better choices you gonna see better results.

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Habit Installation Protocol :

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- It takes 66 days practicing a new routine to reach to the point of automaticity. Automaticity is 'you start to do routine easily'.

Destruction = Destroying old mindset , beliefs , habits.
- All change is hard at First , messy in the Middle and it's gorgeous at the End.

Installation = Installation of new habit.
- If it was not messy , it wouldn't be real change.
- World class is not an event , it's a process ; that takes about 66 days.

Integration
- Anything that you are really great at , was really once hard.
- All professionals began as amateurs and every master was once a beginner.
- On the 60th day you will be at Automaticity point.
- You are built to embrace new habits.
- Be the change which you want to see in the world. - MKG.

VIDEO 03 "WORLD CLASS LIFE DECONSTRUCTION"

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- All success begins within.

Four interior empires :
1) Mindset
2) Heartset
3) Healthset 
4) Soulset
- Everything you do outside is a reflection of who you are on the inside.

The daily rituals of genius.
- 20|20|20 Formula
- 90|90|01 what you do in first 90min of your day.
- 60|10 method
- 2 massage protocol
- Weekly design system
- 60 second student

- Great masters do : They understood their environments shaped their performance.
- Understand tight bubble of total focus.
- Know The 8 Forms of Wealth. Money is only 1 form of wealth.
- Your environment affects your performance and your ecosystem affects your results.

VIDEO 04 "HOW TO LIVE YOUR LIFE AS A HERO"

- Ask yourself 'What do you want to stand for , for the rest of your life ?'
- Take a good hardlook at the rest of your life and how you want to live it.
- 7 external empires.
- No idea will work for those , who don't do the work.

( Note : In this very last video he introduces about 'robinsharmanation' )

That's all about EVERYDAY HERO FORMULA. You can also read his book "The Everyday Hero Manifesto" published in September 2021.

(All the information , writings and images above are wholely taken from Robin Sharma's course itself)

Go through every positive readable , & GRAB THAT VIBE.

Thank-you.




Friday, December 31, 2021

Change your attitude , change your life




Hello dear friends , 

                   As we know Attitude matters most in the life of every living being. So this is the perfect form to express and share somthing with you all. I've read the book 'Attitude is Everything' by Jeff Keller (as I want to have a miraculous evening , thinking about morning of THE day next to me) and was eagerly waiting to share all that important stuff which no one should miss ! Its the evening of the year 2021 and we are awaiting to see A NEW SELF. So guys I'm trying to help your to blossom your beggining. Have a glance on below quotes and then I'm sure you'll definitly invest your penny to get the results.

                   I just tried to sum-up the lines , quotes and paras which touched my soul and made my brain to right those on the paper of my new year. Author have collected and added very relatablly many quotes by other respected dignities too.

                   Have a deep breath and patiently absorb what you read in the next few minutes and don't forget to note it down on the new paper of your life.

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Introduction : "The night that changed my Life"


"The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes of mind."


"There's got to be more to my life than this , there is got to be more than this misery and happiness."


"You are not what you think you are. But what you think you are."


"Never underestimate the power to change yourself."


"A positive attitude is persons passport to a better tomorrow."


"Proof positive that , indeed , attitude is everything." 


"Think , act and talk with enthusiasm and you will attract positive results."


Part : 01 "Success begins in the mind."


"Success is a state of mind. If you want success , start thinking of yourself as a success."


"Your attitude is your window to the world."


"Better keep yourself clean and bright ; you are the window through which you must see the world."


"Attitudes are a secret power working 24 hrs a day , for good or bad."


"Everyone starts with a clean mental Window." 


"You can't always control circumstances. But you can control your own thoughts."


"You control your attitude."


"Read "Man's search for meaning'' - Dr.Viktor Frankl." 


"There is nothing good or bad but thinking makes it so."


"A blog person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances , but rather a person with a certain set of attitudes."


"Whether you think you can or think you can't , you are right."


"We become what we think about."


"Our thoughts determine our action."


"What the mind can conceive and believe , the mind can achieve."


"Nurture your mind with great thoughts."


"DOMINANT thought : you can't expect positive results when you spend 10 second a day thinking positively and the remaining 16 waking hrs dwelling on negative outcomes."


"A little positive thinking doesn't produce positive results."


"A little bit just doesn't get the job done."


"You can achieve your goal when you believe in yourself and keep your thoughts focused on the positive."


"If your thoughts don't change , your results won't change."


"They can because they think they can."


"What we sincerely believe regarding ourselves is true for us."


"Your mind hears every word you speak , and like a magnet you will ultimately attract the events and circumstances that correspond to your dominant belief ; so make sure to use positive words about yourself and your goals."


"Repeatation is the key."


"Nobody succeeds beyond his or her wildest expectations unless he or she begins with some wild expectations."


"Negative thinking yields negative results and positive thinking produces positive results."


"Picture your way to success."


"You must first clearly see a thing in your mind before you can do it."


"You have control over the pictures that occupy your mind."


"Vision is the art of seeing things invisible to others."


"The key is to spend several minutes each day running these new movies in your mind."


"If you can dream it , you can do it."


"What this power is I can not say ; all I know is that it exists and it becomes available only when a man is in that state of mind in which he knows exactly what he wants and is fully determined not to quit until he finds it."


"Read a book "The ultimate secret to getting absolutely everything you want" by Mike Hernacki"


"Willingness to do whatever it takes."


"Until one is committed there is hesitancy , the chance to draw back , always ineffectiveness. Concerning all acts of initiative and creation there is one elementary truth , the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans ; that the moment one definitely commits oneself , then providence moves , too."


"All sorts of things occur to help one that would otherwise never have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision , raising in once favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance , which no man could have dreamt would have come his way."


"Effort only fully releases it's rewards after a person to quit."


"With ordinary talent and extra ordinary perseverance , all things are attainable."


"Magic of commitment exists."


"You become a champion by fighting a one more round. When things are tough , you fight one more round."


"One person with commitment is worth more than 100 people who have only an interest."


"The rewards for those who persevere for exceed the pain that must precede the victory."


"Talk about keeping a good attitude in the face of rejection."


"Select a goal you have a burning desire to achieve."


"Turn your problem into opportunity."


"Every adversity carries with it the seed of an equivalent or greater benefit."


"The road to success often travels through adversity."



"No pressure , no diamonds."



"The things which hurt , instruct."



"Success gold cards - attitude , leadership , persistence , courage."



"When one door shuts , there is always a better one waiting to be opened."



"It is rough road that leads to the heights of greatness."



"I now realize that all the miseries i endured were really blessings in disguise."



"When someone asks me why I changed careers , i reply , without hesitation , 'LOTS OF PAIN' - physically , emotionally and spiritually."



"Adversity brings out our hidden potential."



"Adversity serves us :
Adversity gives us perspective.
Adversity teaches us to be grateful.
Adversity encourages us to make changes and take actions.
Adversity teaches us valuable lessons.
Adversity opens a new door.
Adversity builds confidence and self esteem."



"When you have no hot water , you suddenly value hot water. Not until you are sick you do cherish good health."



"Don't immediately judge your situation as a tragedy and dwell on how bad off you are."



"You can actually see better than you did before."



Part : 02 "Watch Your Words."



"Repeat anything often enough and it will start to become you."



"The words you consistently select will shape your destiny."



"Your words have incredible power."



"Think of this process as a row of dominos that looks like this : THOUGHTS > WORDS > BELIEFS > ACTIONS > RESULTS."



"Words are , of course , the most powerful drug used by mankind."



"Don't underestimate the role of your words in this process."



"People who feed themselves a steady diet of negative words are destined to have negative attitude."



"In words are seen the state of mind , character and disposition of the speaker."



"Never discuss your goals with negative people."



"I'll only discuss my plans with people who are qualified to render an intelligent opinion on the subject."



"The people who always talk about a lack of money generally don't accumulate much of it."



"Read the book "Awaken the Giant Within" by Anthony Robbins"



"Chose words that will point you in the direction of your goals."



"Use the words that are consistent with the path your truly wish to be on."



"Your day goes the way the corners of your mouth turn."



"A smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks."



"Everybody lights up a room - some when they walk into the room and some when they walk out of the room ; you want to be one who lights up a room when you walk in."



"We get what we expect in life."



"Say you are well , or all is well with you, and god shall hear your words and make them come true."



"A cloudy day is no match for a sunny disposition."



"Troubles , like babies , grow larger by nursing."



"Self pity is an acid which eats holes in happiness."



"The secrete of happiness is to count your blessings while others are adding up their troubles."



"If you have all the fresh water your want to drink and all the food you want to eat , you ought never complaining about anything."



"Reflect upon your present blessings , of which every man has plenty ; not on your past misfortunes , of which all men have some."



"If you are a!l wrapped up in yourself , you are overdressed."



Part : 03 "Heaven Helps Those Who Act."



"Nothing happens by itself. It all will come to your way once you understand that you have to make it come your way , by your own exertions."



"A mirror reflects a man's face , but what he is really like is shown by the kind of friends he chooses."



"We become part of what we are around."



"Whatever you hear over and over will be at the forefront of your consciousness."



"Your friends will stretch your vision or choke your dreams."



"Those who occupy your time have a significant impact on your most priceless possession - your mind."



"Are the things around you helping you toward success - or are they holding you back ?"



"When it comes to productivity in the workplace , attitude is everything."



"Good friends are good for your health."



"Confront your fears."



"Do the thing you fear and the death of fear is certain."



"If you want to be successful , you must be willing to be uncomfortable."



"Show me a successful person and I'll show you someone who confronts his or her fears and takes action."



"Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood."



"He who loses wealth loses much , he who loses a friend" loses more , but he who loses courage loses all.



"Consider yourself an immediate winner wen you take the "step and do the thing you fear."



"Developing any skill takes time."



"The only way to escape from the prison of fear is action."



"Running away from your fears is a losing strategy."



"So , stretch yourself. Confront your fears and be willing to expand your comfort zone."



"Failure is only the opportunity to more intelligently begin again."



"Success is going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm."



"The greatest mistake a person can make is to be afraid of making one."



"Success seems to be largely a matter of hanging on after others have let go."



"Would you like me to give you a formula for success ? It's quite simple. Double your failure."



"You may be disappointed if you fail , but you are doomed if you don't try."



"If you make it your business to learn from every defeat and focused on the end results you wish to attain , failure will eventually lead you to success."



"You can get everything in life you want if you'll just help enough other people get what they want."



"Go through : "Handbook To A Happier Life" "This is Your Life , Not A Dress Rehearsal" by 'Jim Donovan."



"If you are positive and enthusiastic , people will want to spend time with you."



" 'Networking' = Development of Relationships with people for mutual benefit."



"Project a winning attitude."



"Participate actively in groups and organizations."



"Serve others in your network."



"Getters don't get givers get."



"Give and it shall be given unto you."



"If you refer someone , make sure that the person mentions your name as the source of the referral."



"Be selective. Don't refer every person you meet."



''Be a good listener."



''In your conversations , focus on drawing other people out. Let the talk about their careers and interests."



"Call people from time to time just because you care."



"You can succeed best and quickest by helping others to succeed."



"Take advantage of everyday opportunities to meet people."



"Treat every person as important - not just the 'influential' once."



"At meetings and seminars make it a point to meet different
people."



"Be willing to go beyond your comfort zone."



"Ask for what you want."



"Send a prompt note after meeting someone for the first time."



"Acknowledge powerful presentations of articles."



"When you receive a referral or helpful written materials , ALWAYS send a thank you note or call to express your appreciation."



"Send congratulatory cards and letters."


Conclusion : "Change your attitude and you change your life"



"To change your circumstances , first start thinking differently."



"When your change your attitude , you change your life."



"Act as it it were impossible to fail."


"The longer I live , the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude , to me ,is ore important than facts. It's is more important than the past , than education , than money , than circumstances , than failures , than success , than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance , giftedness of skill. It will make or break a company , a church , a home.

The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We can not change our past we can not change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We can not change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on string we have and that is our attitude.

I'm convinced that life is 10 percent what happens to me and 90 percent how I react to it. And so it is with you , we are in charge of our Attitudes."


"PLAY ON THE ONE STRING YOU HAVE" - YOUR ATTITUDE.


(To be continued)


Name of the Book : 'ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING'

Author : JEFF KELLER - Founder & President of Attitude is Everything , Inc. He is a native New Yorker. 

Other book by the same author : 'The Winning Attitude' ( which contains 54 of his most popular essays )

Published in India : 2015 by 

Publisher : Collins ( an imprint of HarperCollins publisher )

Number of pages : 128 ( Three main Parts with , Twelve lessons , One introduction and One conclusion )

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